Girls don’t always need a reason to hate you.
Unlike guys, who need a very grave cause to come to a conclusion of hating a person, girls can very randomly decide to hate you, and they don’t owe you any explanation for that. They might not like the way you talk, walk or even if you repeat the shirt two days in a row. It is not a very pleasant feeling to be aware of a girl hating you. Now, it is not always under your control whether the girl hates you or not. But yes, there are ways you can make a girl un-hate you, or decrease the level of hatred for that matter. Read on to learn:
1. Be Chivalrous
Chivalry, though non-existent, can be faked. It is very hard to be nice to a girl who does not like you, but one can always try. Open the door for her, be good to her, greet her with a lovely smile, and complement her if necessary. Complement her only if you have a romantic interest in her, else she might spread rumors that you are hitting on her. Remember: she already hates you. Girls are suckers for manners, etiquettes and chivalry. And if trying hard to be chivalrous doesn’t work, she’s not worth the effort.
2. Confront Her
Girls, like sheep, move in flocks. A girl is easiest to attack (however verbally), when alone. Her power lies in the number of girls that back her. Larger the number of females in a coterie, more powerful is each girl forming part of the same. You can confront her for why she hates you? What does she hate you for? And if it is possible for you two to be friends now? Maybe later? Ever? The girl, when alone, shall be at her weak best. She can easily give up, and there is always more probability of matters settling in your favor.
3. Squeeze Into Her Clan
If you’re lucky enough that the whole girl-gang doesn’t hate you, which is hard for the girls are heavily inspired by each other’s opinion, try to squeeze into her clan. Strike friendship with other girls. Make sure the other girls of your hater’s gang like your company, find you funny, and end up talking about you. Your hater will, slowly and steadily start un-hating you, as a girl’s opinion is more of a consensus than an individual one.
Nothing keeps a girl more glued to a person than the fact that he ignores her. Don’t outrightly ignore her, but after portraying a little chivalry and interest, blatantly ignore her. If she blindly hates you, she will ignore you as usual. If there is slightest of light that you guys can ever be friends, she will react. She will be restless to know what has suddenly happened to divert your interest from her.
5. Work on Yourself
Don’t give others an opportunity or a reason to hate you. Whether it’s a class, or office or any club or any group you’re a part of, try being a kind that no one can hate you for some silly illogical reason, or even logically, who likes haters? You see how actors react to theirs lately? Love to hate you? Make yourself presentable, pleasant to talk to, and amicable. Life is too short to be having people hate you. Your hater under question would probably change her opinion about you, when she finds you flawless enough to be picking faults with.